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Offline Bobby

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Lost my little brother followed by my mum. Then dad died
« on: May 21, 2019, 02:11:36 PM »
My younger brother suffered a fatal Hart attack.
That Christmas mum passed away as well.
Leaving and myself and my dad to try and carry on.
I'm guessing looking after my dad after his health detiroated
Took my mind off thinking too much about the massive hole left by these life changing events. But he's now gone too. After suffering a Hart attack in his sleep whilst in hospital.
I'm now feeling the lowest I have ever felt.
I've never been so lonely.

Offline Emz2014

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Re: Lost my little brother followed by my mum. Then dad died
« Reply #1 on: May 21, 2019, 06:53:08 PM »
Sending you a welcome hug  :hug:  you're with people who understand here xx
Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise. 
Hold on in there xx

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Re: Lost my little brother followed by my mum. Then dad died
« Reply #2 on: May 22, 2019, 12:34:03 AM »
(((( Bobby ))))
That's a lot to process and deal with in a short amount of time. xx

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Re: Lost my little brother followed by my mum. Then dad died
« Reply #3 on: May 22, 2019, 09:16:19 AM »
Bobby, I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you. Yes, you must feel so lonely and lost. I am sure it will take you a lot of effort and time to move forward from all this. We are here for as long as you need us. You are not alone.

Try to take care of yourself and to remember happier times. However long or short our lives and however our loved ones meet their end, there have always been good days that have gone before and that made their and your lives worth living and gave you a store of happy memories to support you and these will come back to you when you are feeling stronger. Life is cruel and loss is so hard to bear, but the good days are like precious jewels that you can hoard up in your mind to give you a treasure that no one can ever take away from you.

I am so sorry and this must be so hard for you. i hope you find some support on this forum.  :hearts: :hug: