Hi Steve.Its fine to be here now,sometimes those around us expect we will " get over it" or "move on" and we do a good job of pretending we have,painting on the smile which never quite reaches our heart but fools them.The point of being here is we don't have to do that but can be honest with ourselves.Its not all about grief entirely either,we have every day chat section as many of us are missing even just that normality of how the day was,or how to do stuff round the house that was part of our lives with those we lost which just add to missing them,and sometimes group meet ups in the real world as friendships grow.
Finding this site was a huge help for me when my husband died,I hope that it can become the same for you.