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Title: Missing my family
Post by: Kes1968 on September 16, 2018, 11:08:26 AM
 :cray:  :cray:  :cray: hi everyone, missing my mum dad and Harry so much today, first day for a while I’ve felt this way, I miss them every day but some days it’s felt so fresh and like a physical pain , I just wish I was with them
Title: Re: Missing my family
Post by: Karena on September 17, 2018, 01:32:40 PM
 :hug: :hug: :hug: This is what we mean by roller coaster journey,some days we just cant bear and are overwhelmed with sadness and it can hot straight out of the blue and without necessarilly any obvious triggers. They get less frequent and we start to stand up quicker again after they bowl us over,but we have to be patient with ourselves and accept that it will happen sometimes. :hug:
Title: Re: Missing my family
Post by: Kes1968 on September 17, 2018, 05:51:08 PM
Plus work wise where things were seemingly going well are now not, lots of bitching and back stabbing, lots of us and them , resentment, I hate it there at the moment, hopefully I’ll be moved to another department. Sorry to whinge, just helps writing it down, sort of, hugs everyone xxxx sorry for such negativity xxxx
Title: Re: Missing my family
Post by: Kes1968 on September 17, 2018, 05:53:11 PM
I went on a ghost hunt on Saturday night, I think the entities present took away all my positive energy!!!  Never mind I have wine, friends on dvd and I’m ordering pizza 😂😂
Title: Re: Missing my family
Post by: Emz2014 on September 18, 2018, 08:15:27 AM
Those twists and dips on the rollercoaster are hard, hold on in there, you will return to a calmer part of the journey  :hearts:  xx
Title: Re: Missing my family
Post by: Karena on September 18, 2018, 03:49:14 PM
If you plan on doing that again take a rose quartz and keep it in your pockect - it is suposed to counteract that effect. Dont forget you probably also used up some adrenaline and that will make you feel physically tired, and in turn might add to your negative feelings. :hug: