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Offline chelle

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almost anniversary of dads death
« on: September 10, 2018, 04:14:43 PM »
On Friday it will be the anniversary of 1 year since mu dad died of cancer. In that time I have had dreams at least once a week of him still being here but now that my mum has moved house and its almost like my head can't anchor him in a location to dream about. With the date coming up I'm feeling caught between various emotions. Guilt, sadness and trying to keep a brave face for tgecrssr of the family.

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Re: almost anniversary of dads death
« Reply #1 on: September 11, 2018, 10:52:50 AM »
 :hug: Anniversarys are always difficult times.I wonder if there is somewhere you can anchor him too - maybe somewhere he took you as a child - rather than the house. I couldnt keep our house after my husband died but i feel very close too him in the place we went on holiday too, I,m not sure anchor is the right word actually, because i am sure he is around me wherever i am - but a particular place to grieve, but also go over those good memorys is more what i mean.