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Offline Sad26

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45 days
« on: February 17, 2017, 02:02:16 PM »
It's 45 days since I lost my beautiful daughter.
Am feeling lost empty lonely and each day I drag myself through
I keep going into her room looking for her. Then see her ashes and a great wave of sadness overcomes me .The reality hits home. I smell er clothes touch her stuff but nothing helps.
I only sleep with help of meds. She is my first and last thought Does not stop all day. How on earth has any coped because I can't.

Offline Norma

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Re: 45 days
« Reply #1 on: February 17, 2017, 05:22:27 PM »
Sending you a nug xx

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Gosh 45 days is no time at all, you wont be coping with the tragic loss of your daughter, all you can do hun is take it a day at a time in Fact sometimes our emotions can change in minutes, x
Its been a rough week but i made it. How about you 💐

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Re: 45 days
« Reply #2 on: February 18, 2017, 10:41:01 PM »
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Coping wil be almost impossible at this early stage. Getting through the days is hard enough. I know it's cliche but it does slowly get less painful and there will be days when you 'cope'.

Wishing you strength

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Re: 45 days
« Reply #3 on: February 19, 2017, 09:47:28 AM »
Its a hard rollercoaster journey, concentrate on just one day at a time, or even one hour at a time on particularly hard days.  Its slow but you will cope and the pain will ease  :hug: xx
Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise. 
Hold on in there xx