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Offline painterman

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newly alone
« on: September 09, 2017, 09:44:29 PM »
Hi Iam david and yesterday I lost my beautiful wife

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Re: newly alone
« Reply #1 on: September 10, 2017, 12:07:42 AM »
Sending a welcome hug  :hug: you will find a supportive group here xx
Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise. 
Hold on in there xx

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Re: newly alone
« Reply #2 on: September 15, 2017, 07:36:17 PM »
I am so sorry. I lost my husband suddenly 10 weeks ago. We will just have to get through this one day at a time, accept love and support from others, and know that in time it will be easier to manage.
Know that they didn't want to leave us, it was just their time, and we can still be assured of their love, that will always endure..and we will find a way to look back with laughter and fond memories - to move forward and make them proud. Xx

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Re: newly alone
« Reply #3 on: September 15, 2017, 08:48:15 PM »
So sorry for your loss David. There's a really supportive group here. They have helped me get through some dark days and nights and I'm really grateful for that support. Sending hugs.

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Re: newly alone
« Reply #4 on: September 15, 2017, 09:06:01 PM »
Thank you all for the welcome and the kind words.I thought I was coping quite well until yesterday when I fell apart.Its good to know that there are people who will take time away from their own grief to help newcomers to the board.I'm not feeling as alone as I was.Thanks to you all.David

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Re: newly alone
« Reply #5 on: September 16, 2017, 11:17:14 AM »
My condolences David. I hope thaty you find some comfort in coming here and 'talking' in the same way that I did in my very early days.
I'll never get over losing her and I used to think that eventually
I would learn to live with it - that's not happened yet.

        ~ I'm George by the way ~

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Re: newly alone
« Reply #6 on: September 16, 2017, 11:34:43 AM »
Thanks for that George. second time around for me so I know what to expect.Does not make it any easier though.David

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Re: newly alone
« Reply #7 on: September 16, 2017, 12:06:39 PM »
So sorry for your loss.

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Re: newly alone
« Reply #8 on: September 16, 2017, 01:43:59 PM »
Hello David I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful wife it's just heartbreaking. I lost my husband very suddenly in March this year.
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Re: newly alone
« Reply #9 on: September 16, 2017, 05:55:07 PM »
Lossed boy Thanks for the kind words.Just hang on anyway you can and it will get easier.David

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Re: newly alone
« Reply #10 on: September 16, 2017, 06:01:12 PM »
Thank you Quietstorm.  Love that stormy picture.David

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Re: newly alone
« Reply #11 on: September 16, 2017, 11:12:54 PM »
Thank you David   :azn: I love storms and all of nature.
I am sorry I just read this is your second time of such a terrible loss. I am thinking of you  :cry: