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Offline macca74

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when does the pain get better
« on: October 19, 2017, 07:36:08 PM »
My husband died of cancer four months ago, the pain is unbearable some days i cry every night we have a four year old son who was diagnosed with autism when graham was diagnosed with cancer, days can be difficult with dealing with our son i work full time and try to hold things together for him the grief seems to get worse not better

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Re: when does the pain get better
« Reply #1 on: October 19, 2017, 08:33:21 PM »
Sending a welcome hug  :hug:  the pain will get easier, but its a gradual journey.  Concentrate on a day at a time.  Have you got some support around you for your son? xx
Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise. 
Hold on in there xx

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Re: when does the pain get better
« Reply #2 on: October 20, 2017, 07:16:26 AM »
I went through a phase when the grief seemed to get worse too, some days are just like that.
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This too shall pass.

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Re: when does the pain get better
« Reply #3 on: October 20, 2017, 09:36:20 PM »
thank you for your kind words i have a lot of support around me but like being on my own to grieve i dont like upsetting people i love and burden them with my problems

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Re: when does the pain get better
« Reply #4 on: October 22, 2017, 08:15:58 AM »
I know what you mean Macca. You won't burden people here though so I hope you will feel that you can keep in touch when you need to.
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