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Offline simonsmum

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Been on here a while ago
« on: March 21, 2016, 12:01:31 AM »
Hi

I came onto BUK last year a short while after my son died.  He was 31 and I lost him on 31/12/14.  I look at your Facebook every day and it has been such a help to me as I feel that I am not alone.  I have one other son who I see every few weeks when he comes to visit me for a weekend.

I live on my own now as my husband (Not my son's father) left 7 months after the funeral ( he thought I wasn't giving him enough attention!). I am getting used to being on my own although of course I miss my son so very much.  We had a very strong bond, but I know that he knew how much I loved him and still do.

Sending comfort and peace to all who find themselves here.

Jacqui - Simon's Mum

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Re: Been on here a while ago
« Reply #1 on: March 21, 2016, 01:33:01 AM »
Hello Jacqui and welcome to this forum.

How sad that in your hour of need you found yourself so alone, i can't really get my head around that because I can't imagine that after only 7 months anyone would think you could be thinking of anything else but your beloved boy.

This is nowhere as near hectic as Facebook but the support you can still get here will also be second to none.

Please keep posting Jacqui, others coming here in time suffering the same kind of loss you have endured may find your words very comforting and see maybe some hope for a bit of peace in the future.
Take care and please keep posting however small or large you can manage, we need them.

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Re: Been on here a while ago
« Reply #2 on: March 21, 2016, 08:32:47 PM »
Hi Jacqui welcome to the new board, I feel for you in the loss of your son plus finding yourself alone to cope with your grief, please keep talking to us in here, but perhaps it would be useful for you to post your story in the bereavement support section xx
Its been a rough week but i made it. How about you 💐

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Re: Been on here a while ago
« Reply #3 on: March 21, 2016, 11:45:01 PM »
Hello Dave and Norma

Thank you for welcoming me to the Forum.

My computer has been playing up today but when I can I will post again.xx

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Re: Been on here a while ago
« Reply #4 on: March 22, 2016, 09:53:05 AM »
Hello Dave and Norma

Thank you for welcoming me to the Forum.

My computer has been playing up today but when I can I will post again.xx

Hope you get that sorted soon then S, any help you may need with that just give us a shout as we may have the answer. xx
Take care and please keep posting however small or large you can manage, we need them.

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Re: Been on here a while ago
« Reply #5 on: March 23, 2016, 07:39:09 AM »
Hi Jacqui. Glad you got your computer sorted, nice to hear from you. Xx
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Its been a rough week but i made it. How about you 💐