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Offline Pambo

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« on: March 06, 2018, 09:19:00 AM »
Hi introducing myself to you all .I'm just lost for words right now and feel I need to keep my first post short .My wonderful husband passed away in September last year we had been married for 42 years I'm lost without him and feel so sad .I hope by posting on this site I can gain some comfort and strength to carry on. Pamb'o   

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« Reply #1 on: March 06, 2018, 09:01:35 PM »
Sending a welcome hug  :hug: we are here when you feel ready to talk more xx
Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise. 
Hold on in there xx

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« Reply #2 on: March 07, 2018, 10:49:07 PM »
I remember getting halfway through my first post and just going to pieces- I had to stop and come back later. Well over two years later I'm still here (on and off  ). As time goes by I think you'll find things get a little easier to bear but you will have ups and downs, some very big ones! I've found that it does help to come here and just 'let it all out'  :smiley:.
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« Reply #3 on: March 08, 2018, 05:31:44 PM »
Thank you for your reply Yes its ups and downs I'm trying to just take one day at a time at the moment .

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« Reply #4 on: March 12, 2018, 03:23:33 PM »
Hi Pambo
So sorry you have to go through this, there's no rule book, no instructions and no time limit. It can help just knowing that you can vent and no one is going to judge. Most of us are in the same boat just at different points. Ten weeks for me and I am definately struggling this week after thinking I was getting a bit better. It will come in waves, if it helps just write, anything even if it only makes sense to you.  :coffeetoast:
Wishing you peace tranquility and strength.
Pam

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« Reply #5 on: March 14, 2018, 10:20:12 PM »
I lost my husband on the 26 092016 he had cancer .

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« Reply #6 on: March 15, 2018, 08:07:30 AM »
 sending you a welcome hug Carol  :hug: xx
Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise. 
Hold on in there xx