Maddie

Hello

I lost my daughter on 20th of September 2016.

Wednesday, 21 December 2016 08:49
Amanda

I lost my step-father 21 weeks ago yesterday and my granddad yesterday.. I'm at a loss to even speak...

Thursday, 03 November 2016 17:15
jacky

hi my name is jacky,my husband died 15 october 2016 i feel so lonly without him and sad

Monday, 31 October 2016 16:26
Sandra

Hello, I lost my darling husband to cancer 7 weeks ago and it's so hard to keep going , I  miss him so much and just wanted to connect with others feeling the same way. 

Saturday, 29 October 2016 22:04
P

My dad died suddenly 3 months ago on my brothers birthday. I had to tell my ill brother dad had died on his birthday it broke my heart 13 days later my brother died I am just numb just numb.

Friday, 28 October 2016 00:05
Catheine McManus

Hi

My name is Catherine.  I lost my mum on 5th October 2016. I miss her. I am back at work but I feel tearful and lacking in energy.

Monday, 24 October 2016 08:39
Paula

Catherine, hope you don't mind me contacting you. Hope you are coping better now. I lost my mum on 15 December 2016 and her funeral was last Thursday 5 January 2017. It is very raw for me now and i just cannot return to work at the moment. My heart goes out to you, it is the most lonely, painful, sad place to be. Take care Paula xx

Sunday, 08 January 2017 12:36
Lingaz

Hi I lost my husband 11 days ago,

i am so lost not sure what to do or how to feel

he died very suddenly 

Monday, 24 October 2016 07:25
Karen moonie

Hi I too just lost my husband suddenly in the 3/1/17 we had a normal day ate tea together watched a film until I went to bed as I was working the next day then I was woken to a bang and my son shouting Johnny's name and I knew in my heart when I saw him and heard the noises before the silence he had left me I just got his certificate yesterday to say it was his heart and I had a little comfort knowing it was definitely at home that he left I just pray he knew me and my son were there with him we have his funeral on Tuesday always here if you need to chat or anything take care x

Thursday, 12 January 2017 13:01
Karen moonie

I am so sorry didn't realize it was last year you lost ur husband I hope u didn't mind me messaging you

Thursday, 12 January 2017 13:04
Mari

Hi I lost a baby girl on the 11 of October. Im 17 and she was my first child . Would love to have someone to talk to . Xxx 

Friday, 07 October 2016 19:48
Tony07

In a few weeks it will be 4 years since my soul mate Carolyn died and I still miss her every day, sometimes I just wish I was gone from this world, I feel I am in Gods waiting room, I try to get on  with my life and I have a new partner now but its not the same, lovely lady but she will never replace Carolyn. I will be glad when the next few weeks are over. 

Friday, 30 September 2016 10:49
Alan

I lost my wife 7 days ago she only went in to hospital for a bladder infection, but caught pneumonia, suffered a heart attack and never recovered.

We had been married for 44 years and as we had no children we used to do everything together.

Although I am now retired we had to move away from our relatives because of my job, so the nearest relative is now over a hundred miles away.

My neighbours are great  but I do not want to bother them as they have there own lives to lead.

So here I am all alone with my thoughts and awaiting the cremation of my soulmate, does this feeling of grief ever end.

Tuesday, 06 September 2016 09:33
Tony07

My condolences Alan, the pain never really goes away we just learn to deal with it (sort of) I wish you all the very best.

Friday, 30 September 2016 10:52
Chris Ward

My dad passed away on Sunday July 10, aged 90. He was my second parent to go, so now I am alone. The link to my childhood is now gone, forever.

For the first 2 weeks - and including the funeral - I held it together quite well. Then about the third week, I just started crying uncontrollably. I started calling his name. For years he'd been in a home, in England - I'm in Ireland. I'd make a trip every few weeks to see him. I couldn't believe I wouldn't be planning any more of those trips. They were generally very boring - he didn't have much to say for the last 2-3 years - but I felt I was there. He knew I was there for him. That is what mattered.

And now that little bit of kindness is finished, over, redundant, no longer required. It is a very strange feeling, and one that I'm still coming to terms with.

I write songs and in the midst of my grieving, I wrote this. It's the story of how I felt at that time, and it is for everyone that is feeling the way I did. I would like to share it. 'The light will always shine'.

https://youtu.be/mKOeorZw5_Y

Sunday, 04 September 2016 20:03
myrtle maid

So a week and a day since  dad died... My emotions are either overwhelming or numbed... I cant just give in cos my mum is 83 and needs me and my only brother is in Wourcester 3 1/2  hrs away.  Its hard as it is but harder still because im not finding time to deal with my stuff and vulnerabilities in this ..I have to be there to support mum but if  i dont make space in that for me ill not be able to help her and retain some scrap of my tattered sanity.. Dad was ready to go and it was better for him that he was able to.. i was with him when he went and am so pleased i was but for mum and so for me its very hard  we are both glad hes not suffering anymore but a little lost. I dont feel "old enough " to do what I feel i should.. Im a child in a 53 yr olds body!

Thursday, 25 August 2016 21:02
Pixie

Me again, I cant get into any chat or support groups, keep saying name invalid. Can I just say on here I had an awful childhood, abusive 30yr relationship, then was with husband for 6yrs. I am tormenting myself over our relationship, questioning things and am not coping in the slightest.. Oh my god oh my god its awful..

Friday, 19 August 2016 21:04
Dave Bereavementuk

Pixie...I'm so sorry for your loss and my heart truly goes out to you at this very sad time.

By the sound of it you are entering a username or password the database doesn't recognise so here are some suggestions.

Go into our main web page where you found this guestbook and you have three choices for the support you so need from BUK.

If you belong to Facebook you can join our group using the link from the menu on the home page and/or follow the link to our forum and register for free with a username and password of your choice, you will be made most welcome there.

Finally once again use the link to our live chatroom which evenings are best when members are about and log on with a username BUT NOT a password or you won't get in.

I do hope you come back to see this and we can then support you during the tough days ahead

Dave.

Site owner.

Saturday, 20 August 2016 07:42
Pixie

My husband died the beginning of july and instead of pain easing it is getting worse.  At times it is so bad I want to end it myself..  I have no support, just sit on my own missing him.

Friday, 19 August 2016 20:55
Tony

Hi Pixie,

I know how you feel I just lost my partner.

Tony.

Friday, 21 October 2016 22:06
Tony

Hi Pixie,

Sorry for the short reply but I think I used to much text as it would not post.

I was with my partner for 14 years and just lost her to cancer a couple of weeks ago.

I tried the chat rooms but no luck with any real chat.

If you want to chat let me know.

  Tony x

Friday, 21 October 2016 22:11
Tracy

I'm sorry but I love reading how so many of you feel the pain I do and to know that I'm not alone wallowing in a hole on my own x

 

Friday, 15 July 2016 01:36
Mel

I lost my fiancee 3 months ago to suicide after a long battle with anxiety and paranoia from a trauma 11 years ago. We have a 3 year old daughter and I am trying to get through the days with a sense of normality for her but my sadness, fear, guilt and exhaustion are all I am left with at the end of the day. I miss him so much and it is hard to come to terms with his choice. 

Thursday, 07 July 2016 14:02
Tracy

hi mel. I just wondered how you are getting on? I lost my fiancé to suicide 12 years ago and I thought it was the end of me tbh, but then my life got so much worse that I recently lost my mum, way too young and that was so much worse than I could ever imagine. most of the time I have no idea what I am doing with my life. anyway enough about me I just wanted you to know others feel your pain and your not alone x

Thursday, 28 July 2016 23:02
June

I lost my wonderful husband David on the19th July last year. I/ we the family nursed David through a short but horrendous battle with oral cancer.  

At the moment I don't know why I'm still here with out him and it's very hard to cope with on a daily basis.   I know he is in a better place and pain free but it doesn't help.   I miss him very much including the bad times xxxx

 

 

Monday, 04 July 2016 13:47
Gill

My dad who was 81 died three weeks ago, I held his hand as he passed. It wasn't tragic and he was lucky to have had a long life. I just keep reliving the final fifteen minutes when he was dying, the guilt that I never brought him home from hospital a few weeks prior to his death. He had never asked anything of me and I couldn't fulfill his wish due to hospital care packages. I miss him terribly, I can't stand the grief in my mother's eyes, life has changed. I have had nightmares each night and wake and think he still alive and then reality kicks in! I am surprised I feel this way. I thought I was level headed and accepted death as part of life!

Thursday, 16 June 2016 19:31
Rose

My beautiful daughter just aged 31 passed away just over 5 months ago due to brain cancer. I really thought I was coping, but it's getting harder, I miss my Joanne so much I just don't know what to do, I can't come to terms with not ever hearing her laugh ar receiving her daily texts again, how do people cope with things like this.

Wednesday, 15 June 2016 18:40
Amanda 49

I lost my 25 year old son to cancer almost four months ago, I miss him so much . I was his carer and with him all of the time. We shared good times and bad . I,m not coping very well. When will it get better, or will it ever?

Monday, 13 June 2016 08:02
colin pye

To my Darling Patricia Anne,

                You were a Wife in a million,why did you have to go,you are the world to me,I really love you so,someday I hope to meet you,someday I know not when,to hold your hand in a better land never to part again.

          Till we meet again my darling you are always in my heart and thoughts.

                                           Your broken hearted Hubby,

                                                                  Col.

Thursday, 19 May 2016 12:53
mike59

I Lost My Lovely Wonderful Wife (Gail) My Soulmate My Life, to Lung Cancer on Febuary 28th 2016 I Love You My Darling Until We Meet Again xxxxx

Tuesday, 17 May 2016 05:29
valerie murphy

i am so sorry for your loss ,i know how it feels i also lost my husband to lung cancer on the 5/4/2015 18 months ago ,the pain is still realy bad ,as you know yourself ,it helps to talk to people who know how you feel,wishing you all the the peace and comfort in your life ,if you would like to talk again please feel free to contact me ,as i feel the same pain , 

Friday, 07 October 2016 14:43
peter

my wife and soul mate died in my arms the day after returning from a wonderful holiday . the support I received from family friends and neighbours really helped me get through the first few weeks but that has pretty much stopped now at night I feel so alone (which I am) I am struggling to cope as my beloved wife did everything for me now I feel guilty and wish I had done more for her  

Tuesday, 03 May 2016 12:30
Barrister Castell John Esq.

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Thursday, 13 October 2016 09:19
Alan

I'm 25 and my mum Caroline was 58 she died on the 19th or March this year.  Two weeks ago my dad had an accident on his motorcycle. He's still here but is in great pain and housebound for two months. He needs me.  My gran is 93 and relied on my dad for things and that has fallen to me now, I dont mind because I love my gran deeply.  I went back to work after 2 weeks since my mum died and  found it very difficult but tried my best to get on with it. Then this happens to my dad. I'm off work now the 4 weeks on sick but my boss tried to make me feel guilty by saying "think of your work colleagues your not being very fair to them" and "when you came back you seemed fine I don't understand"  

So now I'm missing my mum. Trying to help my dad and gran and I feel terrible for being off work because I'm "not being fair to my colleagues" 

The only person I need right now is my mum! But she's gone! 

Friday, 29 April 2016 06:30
Kerry

My husband of 4 months, best friend of 16 years died aged just 28 leaving his 2 babies and his unborn child. 

I couldn't ever imagine losing someone I loved like this

Tuesday, 12 April 2016 19:02
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