My dear Mam died on 24th July 2014.  She went into hospital for a new lease of life (heart valve repair/replacement), survived the procedure which, after complications, was a success, but she suffered some kind of brain damage and for the remaining four weeks of her life was a totally different lady.

We have just had the first anniversary of that fateful day and it is really hard to remember her before the operation, all I can remember is a lady who did not resemble my Mam at all and it makes me very sad.  My Dad survived her and is not coping at all.

Sunday, 26 July 2015 11:38

I lost my beautiful mum to cancer 2 days ago and have become overwhelmed with sadness and also feelings of guilt.I didnt visit her as much as i could have done and wish I could have been a better son to her.

I came hear to share my feelings and hopefully be able to get help.


Thursday, 25 June 2015 16:52

My husband has gone.  No more sounds of his voice, or hugs or anything tangible.  Only his voice in my head, his steady advice and his everlasting love. 6 months gone and I am half the person that we were together.  My mind has suffered, my joy has gone away with his body.  So it's really like I'm only 25% of the person I used to be.  



Tuesday, 23 June 2015 02:12

I recently lost my papa to lung and liver cancer. i was expecting it in a way but not as soon as this. It's just not fair. Why him? Why my best friend? I'm absolutely devastated. I've came on here to see if it will help talking about my feelings rather than hiding them. I just want him back, I heard his voice the other day and I was certain that he was going to walk through the door. When does it start getting easier

Monday, 08 June 2015 21:30

I recently lost my Nan in very sudden and tragic circumstances.  I've never lost anyone as close as this , she was my best friend , and always there for me ! From he day I was born she was like a second mum to me ! I really don't know how to deal with this, I miss her so much and can't accept she's gone ! 

Friday, 05 June 2015 22:55

I lost my wife and two children plus my parents along with my sister and nothing can come close to what I feel and what I have tried in seeing them all again. I was passed this link today and I am really glad this friend had pointed me in the right direction to all on here sorry about your loss I now know I am not the only one in the world.

Friday, 29 May 2015 16:37
val purdy

You're not alone in multi losses..Bless you

Wednesday, 03 June 2015 07:37
carole holden

My Dad died suddenly on 4th April. I still can't believe I will never see him again. Thank you for this group. It is helping me more than you will ever know.

Saturday, 16 May 2015 16:29

I lost my partner on 23rd December two weeks after diagnosis of pancriatic cancer.   Talking to people who are in this group helps, but im struggling badly to move forward without my partner there seems no point x

Tuesday, 14 April 2015 18:59

I dont know where to start I lost my partner a week ago after a long illness I really cant see how im going to do all the things we were going to do on my own an I miss him so much ive got his t shirt that I carry so I can still smell him how does enyone get past this 

Monday, 13 April 2015 18:07

I lost my son 13 days ago following a car accident. He had just turned 19. We have yet to go through the ordeal of his funeral service.

I cannot accept he has gone and just want him back. I held him and kissed him as he slipped away and wanted to go with him, I still do cause I cant bear it without him.

Monday, 23 March 2015 08:47

Hi i recently lost my son due to a congenital heart condition and finding it hard to cope with my loss.  My son had this heart condition since birth but recently had heart surgery which caused him to become brain damaged.  He was still able to speak a little but at a slower pace but completly lost his mobility.  My son was on his way to rehabilitation when he suffered a pulmonary hypertension where his lungs filled up and failed.  I feel so cheated and robbed of his life and feel i want to be with him but cant as i have 3 other children.  

Saturday, 14 March 2015 23:14

Welcome to my new guest book. Please make your comments or dedications here

My former Dreambook was filled with very beautiful dedications and I so hope this one is too.

Thank you for coming to my site and may I offer you my sincere condolences for the reason your here. 


Dave BUK site owner



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